Happy life outside of the victim role
Do you know anything about applied psychology? Do you know what psychologists mean by victimhood? The term itself says a lot. However, since it is more about a mental state than a real situation, more detailed explanation is needed.
The others are always guilty!
Simply put, people feel unhappy in the role of victim and blame others for it … Do you know such people? Do you sometimes behave the same way? In fact, maybe do it more and more often?
Not good and not bad
We want to assure you in advance that we have no intention of judging anyone. The victim role is not a sin – it has its psychological explanation. Unfortunately, it is self-destructive and affects people around you in a negative way.
This is why professional help is sometimes essential
Anyone can get into it, and in fact we all do occasionally. When we become aware of it, we naturally begin to work on overcoming it. When we do this, we become stronger and happier.
So don’t be afraid to look this attitude in the face! As I said, the fact that you take on the role of victim occasionally or often is not so bad at all. Lots of people do that. The few people acknowledge it and do something to overcome it. Doing this is in itself a brave decision and it pulls us out of the victim role.
The symptoms
What symptoms do people show who play the “victim role”? These are behaviors and beliefs that essentially have one thing in common: They prevent you from living a happy life.
This role often also has an impact in everyday working life
Life is a tough challenge
Victims see the world as a bad place. All people, in their opinion, are evil. “The others” would do something bad rather than good to you. Victims find something bad in even the best of situations.
External communication
There are two typical behaviors here. Such people either find someone to whom they complain permanently. They are not interested in any other way of looking at things. Rather, they want confirmation that they are indeed victims. To get rid of such a person, you simply need to deny them the right to be a victim. Yes, you will now also count among “the others” and “bad guys”, but you will no longer be burdened by their bad energy.
Avoid people who constantly complain and exude negative energy
In the second, most widespread variant, people in the role of victims withdraw into deep depression
This choice is arguably worse. Not only does it destroy the chances of a happy life later, but it can also have serious health consequences.
Bless you
Most of the time people in the role of victim have many health problems due to the negative, self-destructive attitude.
They will deepen more over time if they do not change their attitudes
Reasons for being a victim
When and why does a person choose to play the victim role instead of building a happy life? It’s very individual. Unfortunately, this has a lot to do with the upbringing at home. When parents play the victim role, children grow up feeling that this is the normal way of life.
Therefore give your children an open, courageous and positive approach to life
Furthermore, the assumption of the victim role could be connected with the too high demands and the feeling of being overwhelmed. If we were too often in situations where we failed, it could come to that.
A real misfortune could be the reason. Losses, accidents, attacks of violence sometimes hit us so hard that we live under their depressive influence long after they occurred.
Remember, understand, overcome
In our opinion, and also according to the opinion of many successful psychologists, the allegations are of no help. The “victim people”, who we all are in principle sometimes, should explore their feelings. Ask yourself individually whether and why you feel like a victim. When was the first time this happened to you? Is it a “family tradition” to be unhappy? Often we come to the right answers intuitively. They can be logical, but not necessarily. If you feel like you weren’t liked as a baby, you might be true, even if you have no memories of the time. These have just been preserved on an intuitive level.
They can also affect the love relationship later
Help the others
You can only help others if they really want it… or if you are an excellent psychologist…. The support should come less with reproaches and more than understanding.
Try to work with this person to find out where their negative attitudes come from
What should you do after that?
What should we do after we become aware of when and how we have become victims? First, you should never stop looking for it. Most people come across multiple answers. Each additional one is usually either deeper within us or it shows us a different aspect of the same thing.
But that’s almost all you have to do. As soon as we understand the victim role as an attitude, we have largely overcome it. We look at it, and that means it is no longer part of us. Now we are moving away from it slower or faster. Where? To new behavior patterns and a happy life. Great right?
Free yourself from the victim role and experience real freedom!
Stay out in the fresh air as often as possible and do enough exercise
Yoga is also a recommended strategy
Don’t forget the work-life balance!
Luxury vacation in a first class villa by the sea or in the mountains
Vacation time is the best time of the year, we often hear our friends and colleagues say it. Yes, that’s true, but on one condition! In order for the vacation to go well and be remembered for a long time, it has to be planned well in advance. I’m sure you agree, right? Do you also want to spend a luxury vacation in an exotic place where you can really relax? Then come with me! Today we invite you to immerse yourself in a world full of luxury and comfort, where you can float on clouds! We have selected some fantastic villas around the world for you to rent. Some are right by the sea and promise a lot of bathing fun on vacation, others are high in the mountains, where you can go on long mountain tours. But everywhere you can experience relaxation and relaxation at a high level. Plus, you wouldn’t mind viewing the surrounding area from the comfort of your bathtub, wouldn’t you?
You can rent a first class property and have a luxury vacation!
Just don’t think you’ll be putting your feet up on vacation and lounging all the time! No, definitely not! It is about a luxury vacation with glamorous beach trips in Barbados or the Canary Islands, for example. Or maybe you would like to spend a luxury vacation in Bali? Phuket Island in Thailand also offers an eventful stay.
We present first-class villas for rent in these locations. You can also spend a unique vacation in the Swiss Alps or in Aspen, Colorado and go on long mountain tours. Everywhere you also have breathtaking views that are definitely very different from the usual ones from your window.
Villa Bonita, Barbados, awaits its guests!
We begin our virtual tour of top quality villas to rent for a luxury vacation in Saint James Parish, Barbados. Villa Bonita is the perfect place for a great beach holiday. There you can experience a lot of bathing fun and explore the white sandy beaches of the Platinum Coast of Barbados. This recently completed home offers fun-loving vacationers six bedrooms and plenty of living space. The luxury villa towers over Prospect Bay, so you always have a wonderful panoramic view over the bay. This elegantly furnished home has luxurious bathrooms that actually belong directly to the four of all six bedrooms. Guests can also lie outside under the large parasols and admire the breathtaking sunsets. The beach area of Villa Bonita is 1700 m2 and has its own cinema and fitness studio, also with a wonderful view over the bay.
At Villa Bonita, Barbados you will find the luxury you have only dreamed of until now.
In the Caribbean, you could treat yourself to a luxury vacation in this private villa.
Now we are going to the Caribbean, where our next stop is. Our destination is Necker Island, an island in the British Virgin Islands group. Here, Cliff Penthouse is available for rent for those travelers in need of the sun. This retreat is located on the east end of the island, which is privately owned by British entrepreneur and philanthropist Richard Branson. The villa is the epitome of luxury in the true sense of the word. The glamorous interior corresponds to the latest trends in interior design and overlooks the calm, turquoise waters of Oil Nut Bay. The floor-to-ceiling glass walls allow a fantastic view of the sea and the cliffs. The only stress of your Caribbean trip might just be the departure from this paradise.
The bathtub offers a wonderful view of the turquoise sea.
Have you ever been to Saint Bartholomew Island in the Caribbean??
We are staying on the Caribbean islands for a while, because we also want to introduce you to the St. Bart’s Luxury Villa. Here you will experience a luxury, retro-style vacation with the comfort of home. The stunningly furnished villa is located on Flamands Beach, a white sandy beach that you have to see at least once in your life. The living room and the outdoor bedrooms offer a view of the blue sky and from the wide terrace you can watch the turquoise sea water for hours. You will also find a state-of-the-art media room, bedroom with bunk beds and a stylish outdoor dining area for 12 people. All of this makes this home ideal for a luxury vacation with family and friends.
Living comfort to fall in love with
Now we are flying to Thailand, more precisely to the island of Phuket. The luxurious Villa Horizon stands there and awaits visitors. It is surrounded by lush greenery and offers an incredibly beautiful view of the Andaman Sea. The Villa Horizon is fully equipped and offers its guests a lot of comfort. Of course, you decide for yourself how you plan and spend your time on vacation. Maybe you want to swim outside in the pool or enjoy a delicious meal prepared by your private chef? The nearby white beaches and the calm, crystal clear sea can be viewed either from the living room or from the fitness room, but also from the luxury bathtub in the master bathroom.
Phuket Island has a lot to offer tourists.
This villa promises a relaxing vacation for families and couples in love.
Our next stop in the Far East is Bali, Indonesia. Villa Bayuh Sabbha is located there. It is located in a private estate called the House of Breezes. This first class villa has five bedrooms from which one has a great view of breathtaking sunsets.
If you are looking for another dream island as a travel destination for your next vacation, you can browse our website or click here.
The infinity pool invites all guests to linger outside.
An airy attitude towards life sets in in the Swiss Alps.
But if you don’t like to vacation by the water, you can rent a luxurious villa for your family and friends in the mountains. In the following, we give you clever tips on exactly where you can go and treat yourself to an unforgettable luxury holiday.
Our first suggestion concerns the Heinz Julen Penthouse in Zermatt, Switzerland. This luxurious apartment house offers a living space of 260 m2 on its three floors and space for 8 people. From here you can hike through the mountains in summer and spend a wonderful skiing holiday in winter. If you love nature, this is the right place. In all seasons, the luxurious penthouse offers fantastic views of the nearby there and the forests.
The soft wood nuance radiates a lot of warmth in this luxurious bathroom.
Here you will experience a lot of comfort in a rustic style.
But if you are looking for a very close contact with unspoiled nature, then we recommend renting a country house style villa in the USA. For example, Philips Ridge Cabin in Jacksonhole, Wyoming would be the perfect choice for this. This is also the ideal starting point for skiers, mountain hikers, cyclists, anglers, swimmers and canoeists.
Another luxury accommodation option is in Aspen, Colorado. Aspen Ultimate Luxury Retreat awaits its guests who want a luxury vacation in the mountains. The rustic atmosphere of this house has been brought to a high level, where you are surrounded by a lot of comfort and luxury.
In Aspen you will discover the strange feeling of living in the middle of nature and enjoying a lot of comfort.
Bathe in the jungle? How do you find the idea?
Travel enthusiasts looking to relax in the jungle visit Queensland, Australia. Villa Wanggulay Too Treetops is located in the middle of the Carin forest. Here the border between inside and outside seems to disappear completely. After a long day full of various activities, you can treat yourself to first-class relaxation in the outdoor bathtub and see tropical birds and butterflies up close. Do you want to miss this unique opportunity??
Have you already selected a specific travel destination for your next luxury vacation??
It’s worth just spending a few days here!
In the outdoor bathtub, you could forget all everyday stress and everyday problems.
In Wyoming all nature lovers get their money’s worth!
Here you are guaranteed to forget all your problems.